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Unlocking Clarity: How Brainspotting Can Free You When You Feel Stuck

  • Writer: Caroline Gage
    Caroline Gage
  • Dec 16, 2025
  • 3 min read

Feeling stuck despite understanding your problem can be deeply frustrating. You might have spent hours reflecting, journaling, or even talking through your challenges with friends or therapists, yet the sense of being trapped remains. This experience is common, and it points to something important: understanding a problem intellectually is not always enough to move past it. Brainspotting offers a unique approach that can help unlock the clarity and freedom you need.


Eye-level view of a calm therapy room with soft lighting and a comfortable chair

Why Understanding Alone Often Leaves You Stuck


When you understand a problem, your brain processes it logically. You can explain what’s wrong, identify triggers, and even plan solutions. Yet, emotional blocks or unresolved trauma can keep you immobilized. These blocks often live in parts of the brain that don’t respond well to verbal reasoning.


For example, someone might know that their anxiety stems from a past event but still feel overwhelmed by panic attacks. The intellectual understanding doesn’t erase the emotional charge or the physical sensations tied to that memory. This disconnect between knowing and feeling creates a stuck place.


What Brainspotting Does Differently


Brainspotting is a therapeutic technique that locates and processes emotional pain or trauma by focusing on specific eye positions. The idea is that where you look can reveal and access deeper parts of your brain where unresolved issues are stored.


Unlike talk therapy, brainspotting works directly with the body’s emotional and neurological responses. It helps bypass the logical mind and taps into the subconscious, allowing healing to happen on a deeper level.


How Brainspotting Works in Practice


  • The therapist guides you to find a “brainspot,” a specific eye position linked to the emotional issue.

  • You hold your gaze on that spot while noticing bodily sensations, emotions, or thoughts.

  • This focused attention helps your brain process and release stuck energy or trauma.

  • Over time, this can reduce symptoms like anxiety, depression, or physical tension.


Real-Life Example: Moving Past a Career Block


Consider someone who understands why they feel stuck in their career. They know their fear of failure comes from childhood experiences but can’t move forward with job applications or interviews. After a few brainspotting sessions, they notice a shift. The intense fear lessens, and they feel more confident taking steps toward new opportunities.


This change happens because brainspotting helped process the emotional roots of fear, not just the thoughts about it. The person didn’t just understand the problem better—they experienced relief and clarity.


Close-up view of a therapist gently guiding a client’s eye movement during a brainspotting session

Benefits of Brainspotting When You Feel Stuck


  • Access deeper emotional layers that are hard to reach with words alone.

  • Reduce physical symptoms linked to emotional distress, such as tension or headaches.

  • Experience faster emotional release compared to some traditional therapies.

  • Gain clarity and new perspectives on problems that felt unsolvable.

  • Build resilience by processing trauma and emotional blocks effectively.


What to Expect in a Brainspotting Session


Sessions usually last between 45 to 60 minutes. You sit comfortably while the therapist helps you find brainspots related to your issue. You may notice physical sensations like warmth, tingling, or a shift in breathing. Sometimes emotions surface, and that’s part of the healing process.


You don’t need to talk much during the session. The focus is on your internal experience and eye position. Many people find this approach less exhausting than traditional talk therapy.


Who Can Benefit from Brainspotting


Brainspotting is useful for anyone feeling stuck due to emotional or psychological blocks. It has helped people with:


  • Trauma and PTSD

  • Anxiety and panic attacks

  • Depression

  • Performance blocks in sports or work

  • Grief and loss

  • Chronic pain linked to emotional stress


If you have tried other therapies but still feel stuck, brainspotting might offer a new path forward.


Taking the Next Step


If you recognize the frustration of understanding your problem but not moving past it, consider exploring brainspotting. Look for a licensed therapist trained in this method. Many therapists offer initial consultations to explain how brainspotting can fit your needs.


Remember, feeling stuck is not a sign of failure. It often means your brain needs a different way to process and heal. Brainspotting provides that way by connecting your mind and body in a focused, gentle process.


We are so glad that you found your way to our blog! Please know that you don’t have to navigate the challenges of life alone. The team at Engage Counseling & Wellness would love to support you. Feel free to reach out to schedule a free 15-minute consultation today. We look forward to welcoming you!



 
 

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